First image of a stranger always provides people reasons determinating him what kind of people he is. So, people pay attention to their first images, especially for managers because they have a lot of meetings. As a student, to me, it is also very important because I stand not only for myself, but also for my homeland.
I prefer my first image to be modest, honest and friendly. As China's 5000 long history and culture, modesty has gone deeply into people's hearts. On the other hand, modesty makes me gentalman and can quickly shorten distance between stanger and me. Honesty shows my genuineness. When stranger sees your genuineness, it becomes easier to make friends with him. Friendly helps a lot. No one likes cool man who is hard to touch. Being friendly so that you will have a large group of friends who will help when you in trouble.
The goal is really head to reach. I try best to be modest, honest and friendly. However, there is no standard to judge how I do. I think it is not too far from real me. I like chatting with friends. Of course, sometimes I prefer staying alone. Receiving 20 years Chinese culture, I am modest and honest, but shy compared to American. I hope I will be what I portray to be.
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